Here’s a list of great books to read on narcissism and narcissistic mothers. Each one has a different perspective on the topic of narcissism and can help you in your quest to overcome narcissistic abuse.
- Children of the Self-Absorbed: A Grown-Up’s Guide to Getting Over Narcissistic Parent by Nina W. Brown
If you had a narcissistic mother, you grew up with an immature, self-absorbed parent. She may have made you feel responsible for her physical and emotional well-being. Nina Brown describes how to respond to this pernicious process of destructive parenting. She offers a series of self-exploration exercises to help you gain healthy self-esteem and protective coping strategies.
- Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited by Sam Vaknin, PhD
This book teaches how to cope with and protect self and loved ones from narcissists. It offers a detailed first-hand account of what it’s like to have Narcissistic Personality Disorder. The book answers 100 frequently asked questions on this disorder. It helps the reader see the patterns of abusive narcissists in relationships.
- The Everything Guide to Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Professional, Reassuring Advice for Coping with the Disorder-at Work, at Home, and in Your Family by Cynthia Lechan Goodman & Barbara Leff
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a severe psychological condition which poisons relationships, work environments, and one’s own sense of self. This book identifies the symptoms of NPD. It defines different types of narcissists. It outlines treatment options. Prevention of NPD in children and young adults is explored. Tips for recovering from a narcissistic relationship are also discussed.
- Why is it Always About You?: The Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism by Sandy Hotchkiss
This author shows you how to cope with controlling, egotistical people. It helps you more quickly recognize those who are incapable of giving and sustaining healthy relationships. You will learn to spot unhealthy narcissism. It will help you understand the impact that parenting and culture play in reinforcing narcissistic behavior.
- The Culture of Narcissism: American Life in an Age of Diminishing Expectations by Christopher Lasch
Lasch explores how pathological narcissism is normalized in 20th century American culture. It locates the symptoms of this personality disorder. It sheds light on the political and spiritual movements that arose because of narcissism throughout history.
- Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life by Linda Martinez-Lewi
In this book, the psychological profiles of famous narcissists are analyzed. These examples are used to empower you to recognize and overcome the destructive behavior of narcissists. An in-depth and supportive plan is presented to deal with narcissistic behavior in those close to you.
Time to Visit the Library?
Whether you visit the library or choose to listen to one or more of these books in audio format while you do the chores, these books are a place to immerse yourself and gain validation. Empowering yourself with knowledge about narcissism will give you a better chance at holding your boundaries when they are challenged by a narcissistic mother.
